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Its Movie Night! What’s Your Fave?

I can still remember the first movie to make me tingle between my legs. It was a B-grade, cable TV classic (aren’t they all?) called Summer Lovers. It was around 1982. It starred a young Peter Gallagher and Daryl Hannah as a young American couple who travel to Greece for vacation and become much more free, open and sexual beings. They eventually meet a young local who teaches them the art of the threesome.

I have no idea why this movie was such a turn-on to me, since I’d never been to Greece and I’ve never had the urge to share my man with a stranger, no matter how attractive and mysterious. Perhaps it was the warm, languid way the film moved, or the simplicity of the story. Whatever it was, there’s something to be said for the subtle elements that make a movie sexy, especially since – for us women anyway – its got nothing to do with humpin’ and pumpin’.

I recently invited my boyfriend over and we watched a movie together. He’s a filmmaker and has the greatest taste; I have no reservations about allowing him to pick the night’s selection. He appreciates the nuances that make a movie great, not just the gratuitous sex and car chases that appeal to most men. We rented Brick, a critically acclaimed, art-house film with a decidedly atmospheric feel. It wasn’t about sex at all, but was really thought provoking and relaxing. I loved it! Then, I dragged my boyfriend upstairs.

What your favorite (sexually provocative) movie? What makes you watch it over and over?


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The Big Easy: sex scene between Ellen Barkin and Dennis!

That's the first movie sex scene that pops into my head, even though I haven't seen it in years.

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