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Who Enjoys Blowjobs More?

When you ask a guy what he likes best about a blowjob, the most responses I've gotten had to do with the imagery. "It's the ultimate accepting act. She's fully receptive of my essence, taking me fully and unabashedly. With her between my knees the pose is submissive, as a supplicant worshipping at my temple."---Ok, so maybe they weren't this eloquent, but you get my drift;)

However, to the sexy females that I've talked to who love giving blowjobs, it's a whole different ballgame. For us, it's about the power. We don't see anything about it as us submitting to's YOU who is submitting to US. You are the vulnerable one, legs wide open, yielding to our every touch, moaning at just the hint of our breath. We have the power to draw out the passion, to make you groan, to make you scream with ecstasy. For us, giving a blowjob isn't a requisite act of the girlfriend but something that we enjoy as well. You are at our mercy. Just the way we like it.

I guess in situations like this, it's a mutually beneficial scenario. You get a girlfriend who loves to savor your member and she gets a guy that she can turn into a quivering mass of ecstasy with one sultry look...and touch.

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Very well said Logan! I'm still caught over which I prefer or receiving, lol. Guess that's an article for another day!


You are definitely on to something...though I would just add that if a woman isn't capable of receiving pleasure too (because she thinks her body is "dirty" or "not pretty enough"), than that power goes right out the window!

But a real SexySmart woman would be able to do both...and do them well!

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