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Compete Your Way to Better Sex

I love to bicker. Yes, it's true. Whether it's a political debate or a little he said, she said banter, I have to say, it really gets me going.

I suppose that I am one of those people who encourage relationship competition in all its forms. On the course, on the field, at the gym, or simply sitting across the table from one another can be  perfect arenas for a little pre-game adrenaline rush. Many magazines try to decode make up sex in an effort to get us to have it more regularly. One reason why make up sex is so hot is that all that pent up aggression gets us primed for sex. After a heated argument you can tear each other apart physically, sensually, and erotically. It gives you an opportunity to be together when we've spent some earlier time (emotionally and physically) apart. But the truth is, make up sex is so good because it is so infrequent. If you fight (about the big things) more than you love, well, no amount of sex will make up for a problematic relationship. Sex isn't a band-aid - it certainly doesn't solve everything.

But picking a fight in an attempt at getting to the sex isn't the best way to mimic those heightened sexual feelings. Yet engaging in a tennis match, a heated discussion about your favorite teams or political affiliations, even a little mini golf competition, can get you into the mood. And putting a little wager on the game can really spice things up.

So sweat away, debate to your heart's content, and after you've successfully "won", let him have it...I mean, let him have you!

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