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Food As Sex Toy: Is Anybody Hungry?

I’m exploring two distinct concepts with food and sex: one, that eating more healthfully can potentially improve your sex life and two, that feeding each other stimulating foods before or during sex, healthy or not, can help to sexually stimulate in ways only a sex toy could.

The first idea caught my attention while I was reading something recently about spa getaways. There are upscale spa vacations for every whim. Spas dedicated to yoga and Pilates, spas catered to massage and relaxation, spas for couples, spas for singles, and there are even spas for healthy eating. The Optimum Health Institute’s healthy eating spa getaway is one of the more popular destinations and of the boasted benefits to this mini-vacation besides the obvious “better health, more energy” claims, the claim that its supposed to rev up the sex drive as well was most intriguing to me.

Did you know that when you eat certain foods on a regular enough basis, that the “juices” get flowing to certain areas of the body a little more frequently and intensely? Well, its true. And I’m not just talking about all that wheatgrass and soy junk that vegans eat either. I’m talking about dairy products, lean meats and desserts sprinkled liberally with cinnamon. Y’know, food that tastes good!

Which brings me to my next idea. Did you know that a study revealed that the scent that gets men going sexually, more than any other scent, is cinnamon? Its true. Try this: buy some higher-end cinnamon-scented candles and have them already burning when your man walks through the door. The combination of the smell and the warm and sexy atmosphere, I guarantee you, will drive him bananas!

Ooh, bananas! Try blindfolding him and drizzling honey on a banana. Then dip it in crushed toasted almonds and feed it to him. It’ll work, trust me. Play around with different textures (smooth or crunchy) and all the different tastes: sour, bitter (melted dark chocolate is wonderful), sweet and salty. Make sure to feed him certain body parts in between the eats.

9 1/2 weeks notwithstanding, this is one of the more sensual and intimate acts you’ll ever share with someone you want to connect more with. But make sure you really do want to connect because some very powerful and intense things will happen. You’ll be so in tune with all five of your senses (four for him with the blindfold), paying special attention to your breathing, taking your time and savoring things, the orgasm will be so amazing by the time you finally get there. Try it. Then write me and tell me how it goes.


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Like Duh!!

I think I have to add several sensual foods to my next grocery shopping list.

Who says I meant for you to be in bed when you feed him? Try the kitchen counter!!!

Hmmmm....although you didn't talk about the sticky mess on the sheets, you did make this sound quite intriguing. I might have to cave on my strict 'no food in the bed' rule just to try something sensual like this out!

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