You're sexy. You're smart. So be part of the real sexual revolution; Join us for candid talk about intimacy, relationships, protection, and more.
Buy a Box, Give a Box

65 million Americans are currently living with an STD.* And Women are twice as likely as men to contract an STD.* Find out how you can make a difference. Join the Cause. Visit elexabytrojan.com.

*Source: American Social Health Association

« The Sex Toy Party! Details Here! | Main | Fetishistic! »

The Art of Receiving

Vixen recently wrote about the pleasures in giving...oral sex, I mean. But while we talk frequently about blowjobs and our willingness (or lack thereof) to give them, we forget about the other side - what it means to receive and what's the deal with people who aren't willing to give to us?

On one of the Elexa MySpace forums, a woman wrote that her boyfriend (of a few months) was unwilling to consider going down on her when she asked him about it. He said that it "wasn't his thing" although he hadn't tried it before. (Suspicious?) I have a funny feeling that there must be something else - you can't possibly say something "isn't your thing" if you haven't tried it before, right? I suggested that she should first explain why she wanted to experience this. (Because it's just another way of being intimate with someone you care about and you want to share those experiences together). She should also try to find out why he is refusing. It isn't about her, obviously - there had to be some underlying experience (and a bad one at that) that is making him squeamish.

What do you think she should do? 

Technorati Tags: , , , ,

TrackBack

TrackBack URL for this entry:
http://www.typepad.com/t/trackback/6849264

Listed below are links to weblogs that reference The Art of Receiving:

Comments

Post a comment

If you have a TypeKey or TypePad account, please Sign In

Let us hear from you and remember, inappropriate posts will be removed

Save $2.00
Our Bloggers
Logan Levkoff Logan Levkoff
Sexologist/Relationship Expert/TV Personality/Advice Columnist
Liz Rizzo Liz Rizzo
Writer/Director
Vixen Vixen
Bad Girls Rule
Yvonne Fulbright Yvonne Fulbright
Sexologist/Sex Educator
Kellie Murphy Kellie Murphy
Journalist
Pepper Schwartz Pepper Schwartz
Professor of Sociology, University of Washington

Recent Comments

Use online personals, love calculator create blogs, upload your music, video's dating forums and LIVE Video IM, 3D City, fall in love today!

... Read More >>

Posted by: Online Dating | May 7, 2008 8:10:20 PM

Have a Question? Click here for answers

Buy Discreetly
Click here to buy Elexa™ Vibrating RingBuy Discreetly
Buy Discreetly
Elexa™ Vibrating Ring is not for sale in AL, CO, GA, KS, LA, MS, TX or VA.