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Too Much Tickling

The Boyfriend likes his back tickled.  Some people break out the cigarettes; he flops on his stomach and says,"Time for tickling!"  It's cute. Sometimes.

'Cause a girl has to ask herself, Seriously, Every Single Time?  We're not exactly once-a-week people, you know?  We're more like all the fikkin' time people.  That's a lot of tickling.

I'm just going to admit this right now.  I'm a pass-right-out kinda girl.  Or maybe, a pass-the-pizza kinda girl.  And at the most, a let's cuddle (and then pass out) kinda girl.  I want to lie there and let the experience wash over my completely relaxed body.

All that tickling can get a little tiring.  I have to sit up just when I want to crash back.  I have to move my arms just as I want to flop them across the bed.  And Dude, sometimes, don't you just want to crash???

I guess crashing with tickling is even better than just crashing.  FOR HIM. 

But I do feel like I should be up to the task.  Do my fair share after he's done his, if you know what I'm sayin'.  I have to wonder, though, is any other girl up for tickling her man every single time they have sex?

I think, Am I just lazy?  Am I all about the me, me, me???  I want to be about the give and take, really, I do.  It's just that the giving that happens before is so much more fun than the giving after. 

I admire that he asks for what he wants.  No lack of communication there, and that's a good thing.

But every single time is just too much tickling for me.


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